This is a rite of passage, a reclamation, and an offering...
from you to him.
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The prostate is the hidden oracle of the male body. Often ignored. Often surrounded in shame.
Rarely revered.
But when a man experiences the power of his awakened prostate through receiving your loving touch and gentle massageâŚ
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It will change the way he makes love to you forever.Â
The Initiation
Prostate massage is about intimacy. Truth. Depth. Play. Surrender.
And the sacred rebalancing of pleasure dynamics.
You become the initiator, the space holder, the penetrator, the giver - offering your partner an experience that is healing, humbling, wildly intimate, and deeply bonding.
Through this offering, you invite him to:
- Feel what itâs like to receive - without expectation, without performance.
- Help him reclaim pleasure, sensitivity, sensation, and massage away numbness and armour.
- Dissolve shame around being penetrated - so he can meet and integrate his power in a whole new way.
- Feel the awakening energy in the base of his body, and cultivate the capacity to move this into and up the spine.
- Receive a profound rebalance into the parasympathetic nervous system.
- Gain greater ejaculatory choice through cultivating the microcosmic energy orbit.
- Understand the mystery of the feminine, because heâs finally felt what she feels, and in doing so becomes a vastly more aware, sensitive and present penetrator.Â
Why this matters
When a man experiences penetration with love, he becomes more attuned to the world.
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He listens more.
He feels more.
He makes love differently, to his woman and to the world.
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His masculinity doesnât collapseâit becomes conscious, integrated, more powerful.
And the trust between you deepens into something rare and unforgettable.
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This is the male counterpart to the cervix:
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A vagus-nerve-rich pleasure portal that, when awakened, expands his entire nervous system into states of euphoria, sensitivity, and heart-openness.
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 So there is the added beauty and benefit of anal sphincter massage, the âmaster keyâ to the autonomic nervous system.
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This is also a practice in playfulness, courage and trust. (Bringing some lightness into it helps as well!)
For the woman who wants to take him there
This isnât about being dominant (though you can absolutely adapt this practice for power play.)
Itâs about resting in your masculine, holding space, and being devoted to depth.
This gives him permission to trust and to surrender. Your touch becomes a transmission.
A gateway into understanding the sacred feminine by becoming the receiver.
A chance to meet his own shadows around control, surrender, gender, and shame.
And you, dear one, will be the anchor.
The guide.
The mirror.
The holy mischief.
The experience
This sacred experience includes:
âď¸ 3 hours of transformational teaching (designed for women who want to initiate their male partners. If you have one, please bring him along.)
âď¸Â A 30-minute pre-recorded guided practice to explore together in your own time
âď¸Â Sacred technique + playful encouragement + real anatomy + energetics
âď¸Â Tools for communication, preparation, trust, and pleasure
âď¸Â Insights into the spiritual and neurological magic of the prostate
âď¸Â Lifetime access
Whether you're new to prostate play or have some experience, with a curious lover or a nervous one, youâll be resourced with everything you need to make this a beautiful, connecting, and possibly life-changing experience for you both.
This is for you if:
â You feel turned on by the idea of expanding your manâs pleasure
â You want a deeper, more honest connection in bed (and beyond)
â You know he holds tension or shame in his sexuality and want to help lovingly release it
â You crave the intimacy and growth that comes from crossing taboo thresholds together
â Youâre ready to play in the wild, sacred terrain of sexual evolution
â You wish to learn more about the Tantric Tango of Masculine / Feminine polarity play.
â You're a couple or a single.

Drew Lawson
Main Teacher
Drew is a somatic coach, facilitator & ecologist, and has been working in the wellbeing space for over 25 years. For the last 15 years his focus has been on erotic wellbeing, supporting men, women and couples into greater depth of intimacy, sensation and connection with themselves and each other, and ultimately with life.Â
He works with lineages including Yoga & Tantra, Breathwork, Sexological Bodywork, Neo-Tantric De-Armouring and Authentic Relating, various embodied coaching methodologies, as well as the plant allies Iboga & Kanna. Â
He runs a coaching practice from West London, UK, as well as various in person workshops, and retreats around the world. These include Menâs & Coupleâs erotic embodiment practices, yoga & breathwork, free-diving as self enquiry, plant medicine and ecology.
He is particularly passionate about prostate health, pleasure and awakening, and sees this practice as a core initiation in the male journey into an embodied, integrated and mature life of guardianship, service and healthy power.
Drew will be supported by Olivia, founder of Self:Cervix.

Supported by Olivia Bryant
Founder of Self:Cervix
For most of the last decade Iâve been taking women through a journey of Cervical Awakening - this means, helping them become more conscious of their cervix, teaching them how to access cervical pleasure and the highest form of orgasmic awakening.Â
But it wasnât until I started teaching the menâs program that I had a realisation:
I actually donât know enough about the prostate.
And hereâs the wild partâitâs the male equivalent of the cervix in terms of its innervation.
So I approached my friend Drew, who is incredibly passionate about this subject and has been teaching and exploring sexuality for about 30 years.
Knowing Drewâand admiring the level of consciousness he moves through the world withâand knowing other men who have opened to this practiceâŚ
Iâm convinced:
This is evolving men.
Itâs adding a whole new dimension to masculinityâone that is brave, humble, and sensitive in the best possible way.
Early Bird
$147 USD
- Live 3-hour workshop
- Lifetime access to the live class recording
- Guided audio practice
- Couples welcome.
- Singles welcome.
- Playfulness encouraged.